You have either found the right place, or you have not. It will sort itself out in the end.
If you were meant to be here in person, you would already be in my garden. If not, this will have to do.
Mostly, they come to me when something is lingering but shouldn’t. Or they wish for something to linger, but it isn’t. Sometimes they need practical advice on a blend. And other times, they need a way to jump over the hedge. But usually, they need a conversation with someone with a more experienced viewpoint. One who has seen this before and gone through it. And usually, they hear my name from someone else.